“Everyone says love hurts, but that is not true. Loneliness hurts. Rejection hurts. Losing someone hurts. Envy hurts. Everyone gets these things confused with love, but in reality love is the only thing in this world that covers up all pain and makes someone feel wonderful again. Love is the only thing in this world that does not hurt.”
― Meša Selimović
Ah, love. What a little bastard you are. While it’s true, love can take the pain of loneliness, rejection, and envy away, (or simply cover it up, which is not…uh, not healthy, Meša), the loss of love is the only thing that can cause the damn pain in the first place.
Haven’t we all been there? A divorce, brutal breakup, getting ghosted…even the loss of an office crush can open the floodgates of pain. Hey, you (presumably) had some great times together! You had affection, sex, companionship, a permanent movie date, someone to share your day with...someone who made you feel all ooey and gooey inside. You crave that ooey gooey! You need that feeling like an addict needs a hit!
NO, REALLY...IT'S TRUE
Helen Fisher, a noted love researcher, asked newly ‘love struck’ couples to have their brains examined. She discovered they have high levels of the neurotransmitter dopamine. This chemical stimulates ‘desire and reward’ by triggering an intense rush of pleasure. It has the same effect on the brain as taking cocaine!* Falling in love or infatuation is a chemical reaction in the body like no other. It is designed to feel good so humans are motivated to propagate the species.
IT'S A SURVIVAL THING
So according to your critter brain and Survival Instinct, when you no longer have this love, on some level, it is feeling susceptible to extinction. Melodramatic, yes, but your critter brain and hardwired emotional responses haven't caught up yet with your cognitive brain. You know you're not in danger, you know the human race won't die out because your boyfriend broke up with you, but your critter brain isn't so sure.
While it's completely normal and healthy to mourn a lost relationship, sometimes we can let it go too far. We can make bad life decisions out of pain or longing. All aspects of our lives can be affected by the mourning. Sometimes we need help wresting the controls back from the emotional brain.
the new six month transformational coaching program to help you mend the heartbreak, find the meaning, and turn the page to the next chapter of your life.
This program is not about getting your ex back. I can help you get over wanting him back, but Turn the Page isn't relationship coaching, it's reinvention coaching. What is the next version of you going to be? What are you going to write in the next chapter of your life?
Here are some of the topics we may cover in our weekly sessions
Dealing with difficult emotions
Changing your perspective
Who are you now?
Who do you want to be?
What does your break up mean?
Discovering the truth
Reclaiming your confidence
Stop the spiral
Letting go and moving forward
Someone Like You
When to get back in the dating pool
How to trust in love again
HOW IT WORKS
BOOK YOUR FREE BREAKTHROUGH SESSION ~ a 30-minute powerful session about your unique situation.
When you commit and invest in yourself and the program, I'll send you a contract and session details.
Every week for the first three months, you and I will have a 45-minute coaching session ~ generally the same time each week. (Schedule for 60 in case we run long)
After the first three months, we'll have bi-weekly calls for a total of 18 calls and unlimited email support for the full duration of the program.
YOU MAY FEEL BROKEN, BUT YOU'RE NOT...
You're stronger than you think...
You're capable of so much more than you believe...
You will find love again when you're ready...
You just need to take the first step to moving on.
TURN THE PAGE
INVESTMENT: $3000 (PAYMENT PLANS/OPTIONS AVAILABLE)
YOU CAN ABSOLUTELY GET OVER HIM ON YOUR OWN
You can keep crying to your friends. You can keep stalking him on Facebook. You can have one night stands and try to make him jealous. You can keep begging and crawling back. You can eat more Ben & Jerry's than you can stand and eventually get tired of your own bullshit and move on. Heartbreak is a temporary situation, after all, you'll break free at some point.
But how much more time do you want to give this guy? How much of your life is he worth?
IT'S TIME FOR YOU TO THINK ABOUT YOU, NOT HIM
IT'S TIME TO MOVE ON QUICKLY AND EFFICIENTLY
IT'S TIME TO TURN THE PAGE
You got this.
FREE BREAKUP BREAKTHROUGH SESSION
I will personally help you get over him for FREE in this 30-minute coaching session.
- You'll get a crystal clear vision of your CURRENT LOVE SITUATION
- Uncover HIDDEN CHALLENGES that could be sabotaging your success in MOVING ON
- Leave the session RENEWED, REENERGIZED, & INSPIRED to get out there and FIND A NEW LOVE!